Romans 12:14–21
Living with those on the outside
Not part of the body. Our enemies
[14] Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. [15] Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. [16] Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. [17] Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. [18] If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. [19] Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but y it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” [20] To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” [21] Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. (ESV)
Bless those that persecute you – v. 14
Bless those
- Speak well of
- It takes steps of action
- TAKE steps of action to be kind
- Not attack – Not tear down
Rejoice and Weep with others – v. 15
Rejoice
- True joy, not fake joy. Not envy joy.
- Be glad that people may have what you may want
Weep
- Sensitive to the disappointment of others.
- Luke 19:41-44. A concern for their condition
Live in harmony and humility – v. 16
- Do not be partial
- Avoid haughtiness/associate with humble
- Do not be wise in your own eyes
Live above reproach – v. 17
Never return evil for evil
1 Peter 3:8–9 – [8] Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind. [9] Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing (ESV)
Respect what is right
- Right – pleasing to God, beneficial to others
Live in peace with everyone – v. 18
- Never compromising the truth of scripture, but willing to go the extra mile.
- Do what you know God would have you do
Give no place for revenge – v. 19-21
- Never avenge yourself – Leave it to God
- Overcome evil with good
- Heaping coals upon his head (carrying around a pan of coals on your head… shame over your guilt)
- To NOT do something is one thing (I will not avenge)
- TO DO something is another (do something for them)